Philadelphia: Cultural Tips

Cultural dos and don’ts, plus a handy phrase book that introduces you to the language and local argot.

Dos and Don’ts

Fan etiquette: Philadelphians have earned a reputation for boorish behavior at sporting events—Eagles fans famously pelted Santa Claus with snowballs—but most folks are polite if not overtly friendly.

Asking directions: “People don’t say ‘howdy’ to strangers on the street, but if you’re lost they are happy to stop and help you.”—Ron Avery, author, Philadelphia: Beyond the Liberty Bell. Visitors who need directions in the city founded by Quakers need only ask—and ye shall receive.

Tipping: “It really is the City of Brotherly Love. Philadelphians are really big tippers, even when the service isn’t great.”—Joan Stockely, president, Society for Diplomacy. Tips average 19.4 percent, the highest rate of any city in America, according to a Zagat survey.

Hon: Servers in casual establishments frequently address patrons as “hon.” Don’t mistake this for a term of endearment. It’s simply the local lingo.

Attire: Dress appropriately. Men will never go wrong with a navy blazer and khakis. Women should avoid skimpy tops and extremely short tight skirts.

Manners: In public places, people typically hold doors and elevators for others. On busy streets, pedestrians should stay to the right.

Parking: The Philadelphia Parking Authority now offers pre-pay Smart Cards (www.philapark.org), which motorists can use to feed the meters. If you don’t have a card, load up on quarters.